Ah… Peace and Quiet

Both of my birdies have flown the coop, and some people have asked me if I am sorry my nest is now empty. I can say with all truthfulness that, no, I rather like being one of two mature adults in a large four-bedroom home. We keep it tidy, and have the bonus of having [...]

Frank Sex Talk with the Daughter’s Boyfriend

That’s right, you heard me correctly.
I was answering my Facebook mail when I witnessed a rather tense exchange between my daughter, Ms. MiniD and her current boy du jour. BDJ is still in our Midwest Rust Belt declining city, going to community college and working at the local broasted chicken place (18 outlets in the [...]

When Office Sex Become “HO-hum”

For the squeamish of heart, I would skip this post entirely.
I never thought I would live to say this, but office sex has become routine. Mundane. Run of the mill.  HO-hum. Bordering (need I say it?) boring.
You’re probably thinking, “Why doesn’t she just do it in her house? Doesn’t she have a bed?”
For the uninitiated, [...]

Living in a Glass House

I’m usually pretty open about myself. On other online forums, I use my own real name. Now my thought is that eventually I’d like to be considered seriously for my writing, thus the use of my real name. Some people might think that is a pretty foolhardy move. There are some online who are a [...]

All of My People Have Died, or I’ve Become Grossly Uninteresting

True, this week I’ve been beset with a terrible cold. I’ve also been busy with life and have not been able to post as much or as thoughtfully as I have in the past. However, I’ve just checked my WordPress stats (now that I have found them in what is now the “brand new” WordPress) [...]

The Tide Must Be Out

I just realized that my husband and I haven’t had any remarkable sexual encounters lately.
Oh, we’ve had plenty of sexual encounters, they’re just not very remarkable. In fact, you could probably say they were bordering on the mundane.
I wish that I could teach my husband how to use a digital camera. Then he could take [...]

A VERY Quick Quickie

You’d think that because I’m a woman, I’d be all for a lot of foreplay, touching, and general tending when it comes to sex. Granted, there are some times when this frying pan needs a red-hot poker to fire me up, but on the other hand, sometimes all that’s needed is a quickie.
Men are, without [...]

Don’t Try to Have Sex When You’re Suffering From a Bad Back

For the obvious reasons, although not obvious to me until after the act. There’s momentary pleasure, but the resultant excruciating pain is not worth the wa-hoo.

NO Sex Musings

Putting my back out came at a horrible time in my life.
This is the time of life when I am the horniest. Don’t let anyone sell you the notion that menopause is the end of the world. It’s the beginning of fresh adventures untold.
I suppose I could call my gal pal who sells toys for [...]

Sex Comes Home

For those of you who don’t know me well, it’s a prerequisite that you read this:
We Haven’t Had Sex in Bed for Months « Pandemonic’s Time & Space
If you’re the least bit squeamish or the type who doesn’t enjoy reading sexcapades, stop reading right now.
An update: today sex came home.
One reason? We have two furnaces [...]